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about Jim Rohn. In each issue of the Jim Rohn Weekly E-zine we
take one or two of the most frequently asked questions and
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Q.
Teen: Both of you quote scripture a lot in your speeches and often you see where it says money can ruin a good person. I know you were a millionaire at a young age, how did that affect you, especially not having any experience at it?
A. Denis Waitley: I never thought much about money. Money flows to great ideas and persistence and I think money is not the root of all evil but the love of money is. I think money is the same as knowledge, it is transportation and a library card. It doesn't matter how much money you have, it is what you do with the money that you have. And to me it is a journey with fuel. The only reason I enjoy having a lot of money is because I can give out scholarships without even thinking. So I can help people with it but as long as you don't fall in love with money and chase money. Always make money chase you and never chase it, because if you catch it you will be it's slave. Keep money just breathless for you, but keep it really desperate to have you and then you will say I don't really need you but come along with me and I'll use you, but never fall in love with money.
Jim Rohn: There is a good thought to add here on rich or poor; this is good for your notes. The poor must be taught not to be cynical and the rich must be taught not to be arrogant. Because both brings disaster; arrogance for the rich brings disaster, cynicism for the poor brings disaster. So no matter at what level we are, we still have to be educated and if we have no money we have to be educated on what to do, if we have lots of money, we have to be educated on how to use it wisely. How to make sure it blesses more than just yourself. Being generous, that is the key.
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Q: Yes, I've seen this (2004 Weekend Event
package) and would buy, except I bought his one from 2001 and
wonder how different it can be! -- Colin
A: Hi Colin, thank you for your email and question. The
2001 Event is approximately 21 hours and the 2004 Event it is
approximately 24 hours. The only redundancy is really only 8
hours (Jim's individual portion has the same topics as the 2001
event). The additional 16 hours of the 2004 event is completely
different from the 2001 -- different speakers and topics, i.e.
Denis Waitley's two hour presentation, Brian Tracy's two hour
presentation, plus Jerry Clark, Chris Widener, Donna Krech, TC
Cummings etc., plus VIP lunches with Jim and Denis and Jim and
Brian, and Vic Johnson's "No Dream To Big" breakfast session.
The teen session is Jim, Chris Widener, Denis Waitley and
Charlie "Tremendous" Jones and a 3-hour Speaker Roundtable
discussion among all the speakers with audience participation.
It even has comedian, Garet Chester, doing four special
appearances as Jack Nicholson, the Godfather, Arnold
Schwarzenegger and Jim Rohn himself - you'll love this. Then to
top it all off, we had 9 bonus interviews with the speakers.
This is an incredible event and incredible information presented
from every speaker to every interview.
The 2004 Event is broken into 12 - two-hour DVDs - to see the
individual DVDs selection menus go to http://3day.jimrohn.com
and also 24 CDs (over 250 tracks), plus a comprehensive 283-page
workbook and bonuses.
And last but not least it is also accompanied by the Bonus 90
Day to Life Change Course!
Hope this helps!
The Jim Rohn International Staff
Q: What happens when an individual
has a strong will and personality and their
co-workers are intimidated by it and even
clash sometimes. How do you handle that? --
CarolA: It is important to have a
strong will and personality. Those who
succeed are rarely weak and timid. That
being said, there are many people who have
strong wills and personalities who do not
intimidate or clash with their workmates.
Bottom line is that in all human interaction
good communication/relationships depend on
both parties -- different people with
different personalities working to
understand each other and working toward a
common goal.
So, the first question you may consider is
whether or not this is not an issue of a
positive strong will but perhaps a crossing
of the line to the degree that you actually
are intimidating them (if multiple people
are saying this, it just may be true). It
may be that you need to work on learning how
to be strong and yet at the same time
demonstrate patience and tact. If, however,
this is a case of them thinking you are
intimidating them when indeed you are not, I
believe the best course of action is to try
to communicate with them. Take one of them
to lunch or coffee and say something like
this, "I believe that sometimes I may come
across as trying to intimidate you. I
certainly do not want this to happen. I want
us to have a good working relationship. Is
there anything I can do to help us get along
and work well together?" Then listen. You
will have opened up the relationship,
demonstrated that you are willing to listen
to them and willing to learn. That should
put you on a good track to improve the
relationship.
Hope this helps!
Chris Widener
Q: Dear Jim, you say that you were broke
at the age of 25, and that you then became a
millionaire. If you are now a millionaire, and
want to help others, why would you deprive
people who may be in the same state as you (at
the age of 25 and broke) of the chance to hear
your wisdom and the things you have learned by
charging $100 fees to attend your seminars?
Signed, broke 26 year old business major
A: Thanks for your email and question -- one
that has been posed to me before. The Bible says
(to paraphrase) many are chosen but few respond.
When I was 25 and broke, I had the good fortune
of meeting Mr. Shoaff. There were quite a few
who had the same opportunity as I did to be
mentored by Mr. Shoaff. He'd say, "buy this
book", and I would. He'd say, "attend this
meeting" and I did. The point is that I had to
make the decision to act, to make the sacrifice
(be it my time or my money) and take the action
to change me and change my disciplines. If Mr.
Shoaff had made it too easy, I would have never
been forced to start doing the things that
helped propel me to success. Part of success is
breaking through thresholds and barriers, and
that cannot be accomplished if things are given
away with no cost or investment from the person
wishing to succeed.
In my seminars, I teach this philosophy, "I wish
to pay full (or fair) price because of what it
will make of me" - Because the price that I pay
is small if I listen, learn and apply new
knowledge and skills to my life -- thus the
value -- far outweighs the price that I paid.
One of the things I would do early on after
meeting Mr. Shoaff, was to invite successful
people out to lunch or dinner and pick up the
tab. Now this took some planning and saving
because I was broke, but it was valuable for me
to sit across the table from someone who had
accomplished success and glean wisdom and
information from them. I was eager to learn, and
that is a key. You've got to make the shift in
philosophy from Having to spend money on
education, to Investing in your greatest asset,
You.
You've got to invest in your better future --
for you, for your own quality of life. Now I'm
not saying that it will be easy in the
beginning, but you've got to plant the seeds.
The farmer who decides not to plant seeds
because he doesn't see immediate growth or fruit
needs to shift his philosophy or find a new
profession. He's got to know (by faith) that if
he plants the seeds that they will grow, and
that he will reap an even greater harvest than
the number of seeds he sowed..
You've got to know that if you invest your time
and money in developing yourself, if you choose
to pay fair price for the value that you receive
in return, that is an investment in yourself
that will not come back empty, in fact it will
come back multiplied and you will reap the
benefits of your efforts and labor.
And one more thing, we do offer a free E-zine
and an archive of numerous articles to our
customers. There are an inexhaustible supply of
free resources available to those who search.
Take advantage of those resources, use them to
build your skills and while you're building,
save some money -- money to invest in you. And
see what miracles you can create.
Q: Good evening, I have a question for Jim. I read a lot of your material Jim
but you see I am embarking on a career as a investment advisor,
where I eat only if I sell. I have this fear that I won't be
successful. How do I overcome this? Your input would be great.
-- T. F.
A: Thank you for your email and enquiry. First of all, let me say
congratulations on your embarking on a new and exciting (and
yes, sometimes scary) part of your life journey.
A few things come to mind as I read your question. We've all
heard the saying, "Do the thing you fear and you will have the
power" and, "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself." Zig
Ziglar defines fear as, "False Evidence Appearing Real".
So many times fear of something shuts us down and takes us out
of the "ballgame" before we even step out onto the field. We
worry so much about the "unknown" factor that we loose sight of
what we do know.
Question: Have you received training in your new field of being
an investment advisor? Have you learned new skills to help you
on your way to being a successful financial advisor?
If the answer is yes, then concentrate on what you do know. Work
on applying those skills and knowledge, keep track of your
results and learn from your experiences. Remember, as with so
many things that this is a numbers game and that the more people
you talk to the more that increases your rate of success. Also
understand that there is a learning curve involved, so as much
as possible keep a long-term perspective and know that you are
building for your future.
Here are 3 steps I teach in my seminars to help people succeed
in business: The first step is to imagine what is possible, the
second is to have the faith to believe that what is possible is
possible for you, and the third step is that you go to work to
make it real.
You've taken the first step in imagining what is possible for
you. Have you taken and grasped the second step of believing
that success as a financial advisor is possible for You? Take a
moment and remember what inspired you to take that step to
become a financial advisor. Was it the possibility of unlimited
income? Was it that you had the potential to determine your
income and not depend on others? What was your motivation and
inspiration? Catch a hold of those feelings again as you pursue
your new endeavor. Write down some positive statements that
inspire you and keep them in front of you. And remember, your
thoughts create your reality, your world. Don't let fear build
you a fragile future. Instead let your inspiration and faith
propel you to heights and successes you've dreamed of. Then use
that to push fear into the littlest corner of your mind and
don't give voice to it.
And lastly, Take Action! Go to work to make your dreams reality,
invest in the labor that works miracles and sow what it is that
you wish to reap. Then at harvest time you can reap without
apology or complaint.
And one more thing... if you haven't read James Allen's book,
"As A Man Thinketh". Do it!
Q: Hi there, just a small question - how do you break old bad
habits!! and how do you acquire self-knowledge, because I think
if I got to know who I really was - I could figure out where
exactly I want to go and how to get there?? And how do you get
motivated, I mean I know all that I need to do but it's not
happening - I'm getting frustrated at that fact! not
good........ feeling like I'm not getting anywhere, coz haven't
learned one lesson in order to move on......
jen
A: Hi Jen, thanks for your email and enquiry. Your question is a
great one and one that so many people struggle to answer. How do
you find the inspiration and motivation to be, do and have more?
How do you translate those dreams you can see so clearly in your
mind (or maybe not so clearly) into operating reality where you
are working to accomplish your goals on a daily basis. Well, let
me try to give you a starting point.
The key to accomplishing anything is Action! Don't wait for
inspiration to motivate you. You've heard me say it time and
again, the best motivation is self-motivation. The guy says, "I
wish someone would come by and turn me on." And my question to
him would be, what if they don't show up. You've got to have a
better plan for your life, you've got to take the action and
start the motion of improving your own life and making the
changes that will reap you multiple rewards in your future.
Don't wait until you "feel" the emotion of inspiration to take
action. Instead it really is the other way around - take the
action and then feel the inspiration.
The key is You, you are the one who makes the greatest impact in
Your life. Now I must admit that the beginning step is often the
hardest step, but what a powerful beginning, what a powerful
opportunity! Science tells us that a body in motion tends to
stay in motion and conversely a body at rest tends to stay at
rest. Which are you going to be?
Now the other thing I would strongly suggest, is don't wait
until you have it all figured out. Sometimes we can so analyze
our situation that we become paralyzed in the process. There are
basic/fundamental things that you already know that you should
be doing that will start you on the path to success - Do those
things! Take action to save a little, read 30 minutes a day from
a book that will benefit you, eat healthier, take that walk
around the block. At the end of the day, you might not "feel"
any different, but this I can guarantee - your mental state will
be better. Why? Because you know that you've taken the first
steps to create a better life for yourself. Now at the end of
this first week of better motion in the right direction, I will
say that not only will your mental state be much improved but
also that you will begin to feel better and more inspired as
well. And here's why, because each little discipline adds to
another and each step in the right direction builds your
self-esteem and self-confidence. It feels good to be doing the
right things and participating in the disciplines that can carry
you to accomplish your dreams and goals. You can look yourself
in the mirror and smile back at the person who has decided to
make a difference in their lives and is taking the action to
make it happen!
Jen, take today and see what steps you can accomplish to make
your life happen - and then just do it! Remember you are the
master of your own destiny!
Our Q and A this week comes from a fellow speaker, colleague and
friend - Jerry Clark. I thought you would benefit from it (and
not just because he quotes me) - Jerry makes some great points.
JR
I just picked up a message from my voicemail from one of my
students asking me a question. The question was so fascinating
that I thought it deserved a little reflection in answering it;
and, I thought it would be good for all of you to hear my
answer.
Here's the question, "Jerry, how do I eliminate attrition in my
network marketing business?"
Here's my quick, dirty, sarcastic answer to that question: Quit.
Ok, since that's not an option for you, here's another answer.
The best way to eliminate attrition is to stop thinking that
you're going to eliminate it. Once you stop thinking about
eliminating it, you actually spend less time thinking about it
altogether. When you start thinking less about it, you actually
give it less power. The less power it has in your consciousness,
the less power it has in your business. Whoa. Pretty deep, eh?
(I said eh for all of my Canadian friends).
A: Ok, let me break it down for you. First of all, attrition is a
natural part of life - both personal and professional. People
come and people go - in life and in business. Let's not get
caught up with this part of nature. It's called, as Jim Rohn
says, the way it is.
Ok. Now that you realize that you're not going to completely
eliminate attrition, let's focus on the thing we can eliminate.
Any disempowering attitude you may have toward it. One way to
make sure you maintain an empowering attitude toward attrition
or anything else for that matter is to create a Consciousness of
Empowerment. You do this by making sure you consciously choose
to engross yourself with positive and empowering material via
the friends you have, the audios you listen to, the books you
read, the seminars you attend and the people you model yourself
after. That's been one of the secrets that have allowed me to
increase my income by over 500% within the last few years alone.
I know that it can make a similar difference (and better) in
your life as well.
So once again, as you embark into this New Year, be sure to have
one of your major focuses in obtaining a Consciousness of
Empowerment. If you do, attrition, rejection, disappointment,
frustration, and even fear will all be used as a catalyst for
your success instead of an excuse for your failure.
Here are some things to reflect on as you enhance your
Consciousness of Empowerment:
The greatest Joy - Making a Difference
The most satisfying act - Giving
The most powerful internal gift - Allowing Yourself The Ability
To Receive
Our greatest natural resource - Laughter
The most motivating word - A Word Of Encouragement
The most prized "state of mind" - Peace of mind
The most powerful force in the Universe - Love
The world's most Magnificent Computer - The Brain
The two most Self-Perpetuating words of Creation - "I AM"
The most valuable part of any attire - A Smile!
The most catching emotion - Enthusiasm
The most endangered natural resource - Gratefulness
The most powerful tool of manifestation - Faith
Reflect on these ideas and make them a part of your life, and
notice how your Consciousness of Empowerment develops
exponentially. So what have you resolved to manifest in this New
Year? Whatever it is, I'm sure it's going to require a
Consciousness of Empowerment in order to pull it off.
Until next time,
Go, Go, Go and make it happen!
Jerry "DRhino" Clark
Q: Hello, has Jim created any material to use with our kids
and/or does he recommend any such materials on the full range of
philosophy that Jim teaches to adults? Thanks for your help, T.
C.
A: Hi T. C., Thank you for your email. In answer to your
question with regard to products created for kids...
Jim has one video (also on DVD) geared towards teens called,
"The Three Keys to Greatness". It is a great tool to teach
financial independence to any teenager, young person or really
anyone who is searching for principles of financial
independence. Jim takes the info used in George Clason's book,
"The Richest Man in Babylon" and puts it into a simple form that
is easy to understand and apply. While the presentation is not a
flashy, entertaining production, the information is truly
incredible.
In addition, on Jim's Weekend Event - Excelling in the New
Millennium 20 CD or 8 DVD series, he did a unique "teenager
session". The special teenager session was with Jim Rohn and
interviewer Kym Yancey. It was an unbelievable sight, seeing
teenagers fill the first several rows, and hundreds of other
attendees staying as well (this was hosted at the end of Day 1).
The questions from Kym and the teenagers were "on the money" and
Kym was in his element sharing the ideas that changed his life
with a young impressionable audience. Charlie "Tremendous" Jones
practically stole the show with a special 15-minute appearance,
as he read the daily letters he had received from his son while
he was away at college. The letters were a result of the many
book reports his son had been paid to do by Dr. Jones on the
great personal development books of the past as well as the
classics.
As with any and all of Jim's products, because the philosophy
that he teaches is simple and straightforward. We have customers
who bring their children as young as 10 to his seminars and even
younger listening passively (as their parents listen). I
remember one particular time that I was listening to Jim at home
and my son (3 years old at the time) was playing in another
room. As he came into the living room where I was listening to
Jim, he repeated what Jim was saying and continued on with his
activity - point being, so many times that these positive things
are being heard, and the older they get, processed internally.
Another example: I recently received an email from a father of a
1st grader who when riding with her father in the car, listens
to Jim. She already has favorite sayings of Jim's and also told
her dad that she likes the fact that Jim says that they can be
anything they want when they grow up - she's listening,
absorbing and learning - at age 6!
Q: I have a question; I am involved with a MLM company. I am
truly focused on this company and their products. However, I am
struggling. I purchased your tape series; I normally do not like
tapes. Yours were excellent. My problem is I Need A Mentor.
Please advise me where I can turn. May God bless you and your
special ministry. -- MW
A. MW thank you for your kind words. I appreciate your question.
We have all heard the phrase "when the student is ready the
teacher will appear." I believe there is truth to that. So you
are already off to a great start, because it appears you are
searching for positive influences in your life.
I was fortunate early on to have Mr. Shoaff as my mentor. But I
also had some other very powerful influential mentors as well.
People like Napoleon Hill, Earl Nightingale and James Allen.
Although at the time I did not personally know these gentleman,
I did know the very best of what they had to share from their
books. And this is available to anyone who would take the time
to learn from them.
I'm assuming MW, that you are doing OK compared to the rest of
the world, based on the question and what little I already know
about you -- since you are reading and listening to personal
development information. My advice is to continue to search out
good information and then act upon it. Let every source of ideas
and motivation be your mentor. And as you do your part you will
also then begin to start attracting positive role models and
teachers into your life.
Also, I would like to invite you to enroll in our One-Year
Success Plan. The results have been remarkable for our enrollees
and it will serve as a 52-week mentor for you in 2004. To learn
more go to One Year Success
Plan
Q: Dear Jim & team members,
This week in the One-Year Plan you discuss Leadership, Part 4,
Becoming the Best Leader You Can Be -- Taking Care of Myself. I
would like to take this opportunity to walk you through my
weekly schedule. I go to work Monday to Friday, take Saturday
off and Sunday to Church. During my day off (Saturday) I feel
guilty as most of my colleagues working hard (full day) in the
office. In addition to that, during week days most of my
colleagues work late until midnight as compared to myself. I
usually go home at 7:00pm. Based on this, it seems like I am not
as committed to work as compared to my other colleagues.
However, we all contribute the same amount of sales results to
the company. At this stage I'd rather focus on sharpening my
skills and strengthening my client relationships than working
long hours. Do you think I am doing the right approach? Thank
you for your reply.
Regards, C.L.
A: C.L., if you are getting the same results as
your colleagues, I certainly think you have nothing to feel
guilty about and yes, you are making a wise choice to be working
on having a more balanced life. But what it really gets down to
is expectations.
Are your employer's expectations related to your schedule, your
results or both? If you can share with them the desired
lifestyle you are seeking and how that allows you to be equally,
if not more successful than your colleagues, then that would
seem like a win/win arrangement. If not, then either you both
must find a compromise or one must be forced to change.
Fortunately, if you are getting results, then you have the
confidence to know that your results are sufficient and that
your options are not limited.
Q: Hi Jim, I've heard you say that you should
always do the best you can. My question is that many years ago
when I started my career, I worked many more hours than I do
now. I make great money now and am able to spend time with my
family and get to enjoy a few hobbies. But if I worked the kind
of hours I did years ago I probably could make 60-80% more money
a year. But I would have less time for family and fun. I guess
I'm a little confused and at times feel like I'm not doing the
best I can. Your thoughts, please. Thanks. JT
A: JT, that's a great question. Of course you are
the only one who can evaluate your circumstances, but here are a
few thoughts. First we must all prioritize what is important to
us and then build our schedule (time) around that. There will be
times when you need to be flexible, but after looking at what
you value in life, you need to organize your time and effort
accordingly.
Second - in almost every thing in life that we start and learn,
we should become faster and more efficient. The point is if you
commit 40 hours a week to work - the key is to be the best for
those 40 hours - not to work more hours. Same goes for family
time as well as play time. Try and get the most from whatever
you are doing.
It sounds like you are now making much more money now, working
fewer hours than you did in the beginning of your career years
ago. That is how it is supposed to be as you improve your
skills, gain experience and if you continue to be and give your
best in the allotted time you reserve for work, then that
scenario should continue.
One last comment is that some things do require more of our time
and energy in the beginning - a new career, marriage, a new
baby, starting a business, etc. In those cases we might have to
adjust our schedules - but such is life. The keys again are
priorities and focusing on giving and being our best in the time
we have allotted.
Q: I
really enjoy reading the weekly ezine. One complaint I have is
that the testimonials seem to go on forever. Is this really
necessary?
A: This is something we have debated as well. It started quite
innocently as we began the E-zine 2 years ago. We had the idea
to include all that came in each week into that week's E-zine.
We then started to receive positive feedback from the readers
who felt encouraged by others comments. It has now evolved into
a forum, of sorts, for feedback.
We always make sure and put this at the end of the E-zine so
that it is not intrusive. The challenge usually comes when
readers print out the E-zine - this one section can add 1-3
additional pages. We do plan to continue the weekly testimonials
from our readers, but will try to keep the list shorter and put
the additional ones on our website Resource Center.
Q2: I would like to purchase the new Weekend package, but I do
not have a DVD or CD player. Can I purchase these on video and
audio? If not, why not? W.S.
A: Good question. Currently we only offer this package on DVD
and CD primarily for three reasons:
1) The sheer length and breadth of the package (equivalent to 10
- 2 hour movies) started becoming an inventory issue -
approximately 80 more tapes, videos, inserts, labels, etc. to
mass produce and stock. When making this determination, we had
to decide what would be the long term standard and highest
quality product.
2) DVD is not only a digital format, it is also universal,
whereas video is analog (not as good quality-wise), will not
last as long and has different formats for different countries.
CD also is a higher quality product with a much longer life.
3) Although not everyone has a DVD player yet, the industry has
definitely moved in that direction with almost all movies now
coming out in DVD, DVD player sales in the millions and VHS
player sales almost non-existent. Although the making of a DVD
is much more expensive, the quality and flexibility to make
selections and go back and forth from topics/chapters make it a
superior product for the customer. DVD players are available for
under $100 and are included on most new computers now as are CD
players.
Q: Do you offer the new package on CD only, what is the cost
and delivery time?
A: Yes we do. The Pre-Release pricing for the CD only (20 CD's
total), which also comes with the 250-page Workbook, is
available for $199. The DVD's only with the Workbook are $299
and the combo (DVD and CD) along with the bonus signed and
numbered journal is $329.
This project, 20 hours of film and audio, originally had an
October 15th release date scheduled. We have since had to have
some additional tweaks made in the DVD authoring (to make this
the highest quality product possible) and are now looking at
shipments starting to go out Oct 25th, first to the June event
Platinum, Gold and Silver attendees, then our September
Pre-Release buyers and then the October purchasers.
Q. I have seen where Jim Rohn has helped so many people before.
I'm not sure if this is the correct medium to seek his help, but
I so desperately need to talk to someone and I don't think
anyone understands what I've been going through.
Since September 11, I have been wondering why I should continue
to live making plans for a future that obviously is crumbling
before my eyes. Why think of going back to school, starting my
business, planning for a family, etc? The thing is according to
my mother and every other Christian, it's the time of the end of
the world, and whereas I don't have a problem with that, I'm
wondering what should be my next step. I'm finding it hard to
even want to live for the next minute.........I had so many
plans and now they seem futile!
I don't know how exactly you can help, but even if you can't and
have an idea of where I should turn............please I'm
begging for your help. Please!!
Thank you for listening., S.M.
A. S.M., that is a great question and is actually an age-old
question. There have been numerous times throughout my life and
throughout history that the very same presumption could have
been made. So what are we as individuals to do during these
times?
No doubt we should always take heed of the world events around
us and also heed our own intuition. But we also need to have a
philosophy that guides us in both good and tough times. One of
mine is to be a good steward over all that our Creator has
brought into my life. Martin Luther was once asked what he would
do if he were to die today and his response was that he would
plant a tree. What a great philosophy.
What if it isn't the end of the world? What if good and
courageous people continue to do their best and overcome the
difficulties facing them? What if we move right through the next
decade just like the past? You will have been a wise steward
over your talents and will reap a harvest. In times of doubt
there still needs to be people who believe and push forward. I
believe every day should be spent in pursuit of using your
talents and opportunities to their fullest. Countries,
communities and families only thrive when we all bring our
unique gifts, talents and efforts to the overall service of the
whole and ourselves.
Hope this helps. JR
Q. Hi Jim. I really enjoy your newsletter and I have forwarded
it to my friends many times. I have a question that has bothered
me for quite some time now. It seems like I see many successful
people that don't seem to be living the principles of success.
Can you explain this? KA
A. That's a good question and has many possible answers. But let
me give you a few that I have noticed. I believe most highly
successful people (in this case we will identify success as
financial success, which is only one of many areas we can be
successful in) have achieved their success through any
combination of things such as hard work, great communication
skills, a strong faith and vision, high level of skills, etc.
But sometimes we can overcompensate for our weakness. It is
possible to work hard and be persistent, but be a poor
communicator. The guy does become successful, not because of his
poor communication skills, but because of his work ethic. The
key is to realize that if he improved his communication skills
he would possibly be MORE successful.
Some people point towards someone who is perceived as being
dishonest yet successful. My belief is that they are not
successful because they are dishonest, but because of a
combination of other positive traits and that they would be even
more successful if they were honest.
Also remember success and failure are the results of
accumulation. If you are 80 pounds overweight and you start a
health plan today, and your best friend is in perfect health but
stops doing their health plan, appearances would say they are
successful and you are not in regards to health. Point is
sometimes people stop practicing the principles that helped them
achieve their initial success. It is called getting off track.
And their current disciplines or lack of disciplines have not
caught up with their current circumstances.
If you have saved and invested money all your life and all of
sudden you start spending, you will probably still be ahead of
the person who is just now starting to save because of the Law
of Past Accumulation.
So I believe successful people have to be even more careful
about keeping on eye on their disciplines - why? Because their
current lack of disciplines might not immediately make a dent in
their bank account or on the scale. It is easy to start to slide
and think it won't affect you because everything is still
looking good.
Hope this helps. JR
Q. Jim I have listened to and read many of your audios and books
over the years and it has been life changing. I had the
opportunity to see you live in Bellevue WA last November - again
an incredible experience. I know you mentioned you do a two-day
weekend seminar on occasion. When and where is the next one
being held? Will there be one on the West Coast? Thank you for
being you! TJ
A. It has been almost two years since my last 2-day program, so
I'm anxious to get back in the saddle and invest the 2 days with
people like you, TJ. We are currently finalizing details for
this event and you should receive information sometime in the
next week or two via email. I can tell you that this next 2-day
will be in Dallas, TX during the month of June. It will have
many opportunities and nuances that we have never offered before
in a 2-day or any other seminar. I do not have another 2-day
scheduled until sometime in 2002 or 2003, so I hope you will be
able to attend this one. Again dates and info will follow in the
next few weeks. JR
Q. Jim has frequently talked about increasing his income after
meeting his mentor. We are very curious, and were wondering what
line of business Jim first made his millions in? We have guessed
that it was some sort of sales, but would love to hear the
specifics.
A. Jim met Mr. Shoaff at age 25 through the network marketing
industry. He considers network marketing to be grassroots
capitalism at its best, when it is with a good company - with a
good product and good leadership.
Q. Can you tell us about the way Jim made his fortune? What
type of company was he working for with Mr. Shoaff and what
types of companies has Jim owned or managed since then? Does he
speak full-time or does he continue to run various firms?
A. After starting on his first fortune in network marketing,
Jim went on to become an entrepreneur. He has founded or is
active in companies across multiple industries. He is still
actively speaking with over 140 speaking engagements in over 25
countries, this year alone.
Q. Hi there, I have recently been listening to the tape set "The
Challenge to Succeed". Several times in that seminar Jim says,
"you should be financially free by 40, 35 if your smart and
earlier if you have a unique opportunity"
I am curious about this. It has really got me thinking. I am
reading the 3 books that he recommended we read. Is there
anything else that Jim would recommend us to read to achieve
this???????
Regards, Craig
A. Hi Craig, there are a variety of books and audio series you
can read and listen to, and I will name a few. But the three
most important things you must do are:
1) Decide you will establish a financial independence plan
2) Study as many different teachers on financial independence as
possible
3) Then make a plan for yourself and do it.
Here are some of my recommended books for financial
independence. The Richest Man in Babylon, Think and Grow Rich,
The Wealthy Barber, The Millionaire Next Door and Rich Dad, Poor
Dad.
Hope this helps! JR
Q: "I genuinely try to have the attitude of wanting to be
nice to someone who is difficult to deal with, but can't seem to
get over the feeling of, 'Well, if he's nice to me first, then
I'll be nice to him.' I find that reaching out first doesn't
work for me because really, I don't like nasty people, and I
feel phony about being nice to someone I don't like."
A: The first key is to understand that what you're feeling
is very natural. After all, I don't think many of us have an
innate desire to be nice to difficult people. The world being
the way it is, though, we need to make a decision as to whether
we want to "be right or be successful" in dealing with others.
The good news is that when we are successful, we also become
right.
The second key is to teach ourselves to develop the
characteristic of feeling good about those difficult people. The
way to feel it is to first act it!
Here's a principle that many successful (happy) people have
realized: "Action precedes feeling." Try it for a while and
you'll see. It's amazing how it works.
For example, a person is sad. Do they need to have a happy
incident occur "to" them before they can be happy? No, it's been
proven that if you act happy, you will become happy (happiness
is independent of external circumstances - which doesn't mean
there aren't external circumstances that can legitimately cause
sadness, but not as a general way of being). Change your actions
and you'll change your emotions. For example, smile really,
really big, and just try to feel sad. Can't do it. :-)
Practice "feeling" good about a difficult person by "acting"
good towards that difficult person. Yes, at first it is an act.
That's okay. Perfectly acceptable. Then, when the person picks
up on your action and relates more benevolently towards you in
return, your good feelings really will be true. – Bob
Q: Jim, after reading your bio on your website, I still
want to know more. I see many of your accomplishments and all
the great things that many impressive people have to say about
you. But what happened along the way, what has been important in
helping you achieve your success? PK
A: Obviously there are thousands of things that have made a
positive difference in my life as well as tens of thousands of
experiences along the way – far too much to try and put in a bio
(by the way I do enjoy whatever amounts of privacy I can
maintain). But if I had to define the keys to any successes in
my life so far I would say it gets down to three things:
1) Early part of my life - the faith and beliefs that were given
to me from my parents.
2) Middle part of my life – having some unique mentors to learn
and grow from.
3) Latter part of my life – having confidence in men I trust.
I hope this helps. JR
We would like to address frequently asked questions
from our readers related to overcoming hardships, difficult
circumstances and even tragedies in their lives through a
special guest article by Doug Firebaugh.
"A person dies daily, only to be reborn in the morning, bigger,
better, wiser." Emmet Fox
Criticism
Embarrassment
Rejection
Self-Doubt
Arguments
Stress
Jealousy
Hurt
Pain
Heartache
The list of pain in life goes on and on and on.
But there is Good News!!
At times during your day you will feel a little piece of you
inside almost "dying" from someone's words, anger, criticism,
and the like.
But -
A seed has to die in order to create the growth. Are you aware
of that? A seed has to die to create the catalyst for the new
growth to shoot forth.
Life is like that too - it teaches you lessons about growth from
the seeds it plants in you daily.
And with the Morning coming, you will know that it is a brand
new day and that yesterday has planted its seeds, and now you
wait for the growth that will take place to propel you to
greater heights.
Life hurts at times. We know that. But when a little piece of
you inside feels like it could die due to pain from other folks
- Let it. The growth of a better and wiser person will shoot up
from that seed of hurt someone planted yesterday.
It may not sprout overnight, but it WILL grow.
And you WILL get through what you are currently facing, whatever
seed that is and no matter how painful ... how strong.
I promise. Been there. Done that. Got the T-shirt.
I'm still here.
Blessings,
Doug Firebaugh
PassionFire Intl.
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Q. As a frequent student of Jim Rohn, I have this question.
With English as my first and only language, which language would
you recommend that I learn to help open up my skills for dealing
with a global economy? Spanish, Japanese or any other language?
I live in the US, but I'm working to expand a NWM company
internationally. Please advise. Thanks. J.M.
A. Obviously your future goals, ambitions and influences would
play heavily into the answer. But generally if you live in
America and want to also be part of a global economy I would
still say Spanish should be number one. It would be valuable to
you in both North and South America as well as parts of Europe.
It is also relatively easy to learn. After Spanish then it's
your pick. Whatever seems to make the most sense to you.
I do congratulate you on wanting to increase your influence and
skill by learning a second language. Only five to ten new words
a day can translate into 1500-3000 words in one year.
Q. I know your office is in Dallas, TX, is that where Jim
lives?
A. Actually Jim travels so much for both business (over 100
talks a year) and personal (family, friends and adventure) that
living in Dallas is not essential. He currently has residences
in Beverly Hills, Southwest Idaho, Phoenix, and Carmel. One for
each season, a goal he had set for himself early in his sales
career over 40 years ago.
Q: What were Mr. Schoaf's ideas on getting out of debt,
yet continuing to meet your obligations? Jeanne
A: In those early years Mr. Schoaf gave me a great quote,
he said, "it's not the amount that matters as much as the plan".
The point is, I teach the 70/30 principle of saving 10%,
investing 10% and giving 10% of your net income. I believe those
are good ratios for dividing how much you should save, invest
and give compared to what you live on.
When you need to get out of debt, I would suggest you keep the
same principle, but adjust the amounts. Example: Live on 70%,
pay 20% toward debt and then use the remaining 10% to save,
invest and give. Or, if that is too much, live on 80%, put 14%
toward debt and allocate 2% each for saving, investing and
giving. Again it's not so much the amount as having a plan. Just
make sure as you start to pay off your debt, lower your interest
payments and curtail your spending - that you then adjust your
percentages of paying off debt, saving, investing and giving. (I
personally believe in the biblical 10% amount of giving and
paying God first, but that is for you to decide.)
No matter what, I would try and pay yourself first through
saving and investing - even if it's modest amounts and then pay
as much of your higher interest debts off first, while cutting
out all non-essential spending. These three disciplines will
begin the momentum to gaining the joy and pride of experiencing
financial freedom. Soon you will see yourself being transformed
from a spender to a saver, and from a borrower to a lender.
Q. Hi Jim, I recently joined a network marketing company.
After an initial excitement I've found myself lacking the
motivation or discipline to do what I need to do to reach
my goals. My husband, who is in sales, suggested I read
my goals 2-3 times a day. I'm reading but wanted to see
if you have any additional advice? Thank you. SM
A. I'm a strong proponent of setting goals, writing down
your goals, visualizing your goals, etc. But even more than
goals, I believe there needs to be a "what for" or as I
call them, a set of "reasons" to achieve your goals. I
truly believe reasons make the difference. The "why" is
always more powerful than "how". Reasons and goals are
similar in some ways, but after reading what I've outlined
below, I think you will see some of the differences
as well.
Here is a short list of reasons (there are many more) that
you might want to pull from:
1) Material things - houses, cars, boats, season tickets
to a local sports team's events or the theater, as well as
vacations - just to name a few. Material things are
important and do help us make short term sacrifices.
Example: If you get "X" amount of results you can go to
the ballgame or buy the set of golf clubs, etc.
2) Family reasons can be especially powerful. A family
trip, saving for education for your kids, helping other
family members. I've found that we will often do far more
for and because of our family than we would ever do for
ourselves.
3) Recognition can cause us to push beyond our comfort
zone - to be that month's top producer or to break a
record. Three important areas of recognition:
a) our peers
b) a mentor or leader
c) family and friends
4) Benevolence - making a difference in our community and
our world has helped to create some of the most spectacular
success stories. It is hard to stop someone on a mission
bigger than himself or herself.
5) To be the best. To try and accomplish new and greater
goals. To be number one at times in a small group or
a large group - but to be on top, even if it is for a day,
can create large amounts of motivation.
The most important part of all of these reasons is that
if any one of them helps your take a step toward your goals
and then another reason helps you take the next step, then
soon you will so enjoy the fruit and results of your own
successes, as well as helping all those around you, that
you will have no problem sustaining all future motivation.
Good Luck!
Q. I bought the two tape series "How to Use a Journal"
by Jim Rohn. I really enjoyed it and want to use a
journal. I can't find one any anywhere. All I can find
are organizers. Are there any national chain stores that
carry a good selection of journals? Help. C.N.
A. I'm finding a greater selection than ever at book-
stores for journals. But I do find that it is a store by
store thing. It would be best to call the bookstores in
your area (check the yellow pages). We also recently
added a larger, lined and inexpensive journal in our
Online Catalog at www.jimrohn.com. They come in two
sizes and three colors.
Leather goods companies such as Coach also carry high
quality leather-bound journals. Check their website
http://www.coach.com or call their toll-free number -
888-262-6224.
Note: To get the twenty-six dollar (more now) journal that
Jim references in the article, can require some research.
Jim's advice is when you find what you really like,
especially if it's through a specialty store, is to stock
up. He typically will get 4-6 at a time when he happens
upon unique and appealing journals.
Q. Mr. Rohn, I have a wonderful job/career working for some
truly wonderful people doing what I love to do and do best --
writing. However, I want to branch out and have started several
projects, have wonderful ideas about what I want to do with my
skills. My problem is I can't seem to get off dead center. I've
ordered books on publishing, writing and other sources to help
me with my chosen dream but I just can't seem to get the
momentum going to accomplish my passion. I read your
motivational words each week along with as much other
motivational material as I can get my hands on, but I still have
the same old problem of procrastination. How can I get this
dream moving? Thank you for any assistance you can give me. SW
A. I've often found some of the greatest motivation and
inspiration in achieving a goal is found by simply getting
started. Once you take a step past fatigue, boredom, obstacles,
mental blocks and procrastination you find renewed energy and
vision.
I've met many people who also have found clever ways to
procrastinate - they are forever more the professional students.
They keep learning and studying, but never doing. I'm a huge
proponent of learning, but my advice is study and then do. Then
study some more and then do some more.
Also, I suggest that you focus your 'several projects' down to
just one or two that are the most important for you to
accomplish and focus on now. Sometimes too many choices can mean
to choose not to choose at all. Yes, have your dream list, but
then narrow the focus of the list to one or two at a time, at
least until you create the needed momentum.
And lastly, it is OK to take baby steps. The wise saying, "The
journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step" is true.
And often times it is the first small steps that mean the most.
Good Luck!
Q. Hi Jim, I've heard you say that you should always do
the best you can. My question is that many years ago when
I started my career, I worked many more hours than I do
now. I make great money now and am able to spend time
with my family and get to enjoy a few hobbies. But if I
worked the kind of hours I did years ago I probably could
make 60-80% more money a year. But I would have less
time for family and fun. I guess I'm a little confused and
at times feel like I'm not doing the best I can. Your
thoughts, please. Thanks. JT
A. JT, that's a great question. Of course you are the only
one who can evaluate your circumstances, but here a few
thoughts. First we must all prioritize what is important
to us and then build our schedule (time) around that.
There will be times when you need to be flexible, but
after looking at what you value in life, you need to
organize your time and effort accordingly.
Second - in almost every thing in life that we start
and learn, we should become faster and more efficient.
The point is if you commit 40 hours a week to work -
the key is to be the best for those 40 hours - not to work
more hours. Same goes for family time as well as play
time. Try and get the most from whatever you are doing.
It sounds like you are now making much more money now,
working fewer hours than you did in the beginning of your
career years ago. That is how it is supposed to be as you
improve your skills, gain experience and if you continue
to be and give your best in the allotted time you reserve
for work, then that scenario should continue.
One last comment is that some things do require more of
our time and energy in the beginning - a new career,
marriage, a new baby, recovering from an accident, etc.
In those cases we might have to adjust our schedules - but
such is life. The keys again are priorities and focusing
on giving and being our best in the time we have allotted.
Q. I have a question; I am involved with a MLM company. I am
truly focused on this company and their products. However, I am
struggling. I purchased your tape series; I normally do not like
tapes. Yours were excellent. My problem is I NEED A MENTOR.
Please advise me where I can turn. May God bless you and your
special ministry. MW
A. Thank you for your kind words. I was fortunate early on to
have Mr. Schoaff as my mentor. But I also had some other very
powerful influential mentors as well. People like Napoleon Hill,
Earl Nightingale and James Allen. Although at the time I did not
personally know these gentlemen, I did know the very best of
what they had to share from their books.
I'm assuming MW, that you are doing OK compared to the rest of
the world, based on the question and what little I already know
about you -- since you are reading and listening to personal
development information. My advice is to continue to search out
good information and then ACT upon it. Let every source of ideas
and motivation be your mentor, until a live body comes along,
and even then let that person be a source - not the whole piece
of the mentoring input into your life. Good luck!
Q. What do you think the future holds for sales? I have no
degree; I am 29 and need to start a career. I have been taking
care of my kids as a house dad for the past 7 years while my
wife built her career. I want to control my income. I would like
to get into a sales position that doesn't require a degree that
can take me to unlimited income potential. If you have any ideas
please let me know. Take care and have a great day. Best
regards, TL
A. I really don't know enough about you personally and what
motivates you to properly answer your question. But I do believe
sales will have a great future. The key is what do you want to
do? Focus on what you want to do the next 10-30 years and
beyond, and then move in that direction, applying the principles
of focus, faith, persistence and hard work.
As for unlimited income potential, I know only two avenues:
self-employment and MLM. Neither one is quick or easy. If
someone says otherwise --- beware. Both can be financially and
time risky. With both you need to think long term and apply the
principals I mentioned in my article. In the beginning you can
usually do either one part time, to help minimize risk while you
gain experience. I don't believe it's necessary to invest large
amounts of money into either one, especially if you are new or
inexperienced. Build it slow and right and think long term.
Q. Jim, I noticed on your website that you have a video for
teenagers called "Three Keys To Greatness." What are the Three
Keys? Thank you for your weekly ezine. JP
A. The condensed answer is: If a young person, or for that
matter an adult, focused on doing these three simple things over
a long period of time I believe they will be assured success.
1) Setting Goals. I call it the view of the future. Most people,
including kids, will pay the price if they can see the promise
of the future. So we need to help our kids see a well-defined
future, so they will be motivated to pay the price today to
attain the rewards of tomorrow. Goals help them do this.
2) Personal Development. Simply making consistent investments in
our self-education and knowledge banks pays major dividends
throughout our lives. I suggest having a minimum amount of time
set aside for reading books, listening to audiocassettes,
attending seminars, keeping a journal and spending time with
other successful people. Charlie Tremendous Jones says you will
be in five years the sum total of the books you read and the
people you are around.
3) Financial Planning. I call it the 70/30 plan. After receiving
your paycheck or paying yourself, simply setting aside 10% for
saving, 10% for investing and 10% for giving will, over time,
guarantee financial independence for a teenager.
Again, I believe all three points are excellent advice for the
parents as well as the kids!
Q. Jim, I'm a leader with a downline in a network marketing
company. I'm constantly encouraging my group to engage in
personal development. When they do, their results are almost
always dramatic in both their personal and business life. But
often I find after becoming successful, they get busy and stop
sharpening their 'saw', thinking they don't need to continue
their learning. Any suggestions? T.W.
A. "Priority" is the big word. From the time we go to school to
when our life finishes up - we have to prioritize what's
important and what's not. I believe having a progressive curve
of learning is critical and that we should never cease our quest
for learning/ knowledge.
One of the major ways to keep people in the learning mode is to
constantly expose them to a system to always be where the
knowledge is - seminars, quality events, all the trainings,
books, audios etc. Exposure to personal development is like
tuning into the right frequency on the radio dial. You are going
through the day, and then you hear a motivational quote, poem,
story or testimonial. Now it has you thinking about your goals,
values, ambitions and opportunities.
And finally remember that all education is cumulative. It's like
having a lock that needs 4 numbers to open it and you are at 3 -
then you get number 4! But we never know what book or event
could be the fourth number and maybe even the catalyst for life
change.
So, yes, sometimes people do step off the personal development
treadmill, but if you keep sharing it, exposing it and most
importantly living it, they will most certainly be ready to
re-engage in this never ending desire and ambition to grow.
Q: What were Mr. Schoaf's ideas on getting out of debt,
yet continuing to meet your obligations? Jeanne
A: In those early years Mr. Schoaf gave me a great quote,
he said "it's not the amount that matters as much as the plan".
The point is, I teach the 70/30 principle of saving 10%,
investing 10% and giving 10% of your net income. I believe those
are good ratios of dividing how much you should save, invest and
give compared to what you live on.
When you need to get out of debt, I would suggest you keep the
same principle, but adjust the amounts. Example: Live on 70%,
pay 20% toward debt and then use the remaining 10% to save,
invest and give. Or if that is too much, live on 80%, put 14%
toward debt and allocate 2% each for saving, investing and
giving. Again it's not so much the amount as having a plan. Just
make sure as you start to pay off your debt, lower your interest
payments and curtail your spending - that you then adjust your
percentages of paying off debt, saving, investing and giving. (I
personally believe in the biblical 10% amount of giving and
paying God first, but that is for you to decide.)
No matter what, I would try and pay yourself first through
saving and investing - even if it's modest amounts and then pay
as much of your higher interest debts off first, while cutting
out all non-essential spending. These three disciplines will
begin the momentum to gaining the joy and pride of experiencing
financial freedom. Soon you will see yourself being transformed
from a spender to a saver, and from a borrower to a lender.
Q. Jim, I hear you say discipline is a key to success. But, in
spite of how much I've tried to lose weight and earn more money
in my sales position, discipline continues to be my biggest
challenge. How can I get over the hurdle? JW
A. I believe you should start with one or two easy, small
disciplines and then begin to string several easy, small ones
together.
Start making one extra call a day. Start walking around the
block. Do five setups. Eat a piece of fruit instead of dessert.
Then try and build a little bit more each day on your successes.
You see, everything affects everything else. Every discipline,
or lack of one, affects every other discipline. So I believe by
doing the easy disciplines every day you will begin to see
immediate results and hopefully gain the much needed momentum
and excitement that will help you to continue to take bigger and
bigger steps to a more disciplined and productive life. Good
luck!
Q. In referencing this extraordinary man - Earl Shoaff, I've
heard you say he died early. How old was Mr. Shoaff? Was he
healthy? Are there any lessons to be learned by his death? If
so, have they affected your life? MJ
A. Because Mr. Shoaff was so extraordinary, and so profoundly
influenced my life, it is always difficult for me to reference
any of his flaws.
To answer your questions, Mr. Shoaff passed on at age 49 from
cirrhosis of the liver. For all of his uniqueness and wisdom, he
miscalculated on two major things; one was his Camels and the
other was his champagne.
I do believe that way back then if the cigarette package had
said there was a chance they could kill you - he would have
backed off.
And yes, Mr. Shoaff's early passing and the cause did affect my
health habits and me.
Q. Does Mr. Rohn use a planner i.e. Daytimer, Filofax, etc.,
and, if yes, which one does he find the best? N.H.
A. I use a Daytimer for my schedule, addresses and projects;
and a journal for capturing ideas and taking/ making notes. But
you need to play around with it and see what seems to work best
for you.
Q. Many of Jim's tape programs discuss the importance of
building a personal library. While he offers several suggested
books by a few authors, I wonder if a more comprehensive list of
suggested materials can be made available? M.E.
A. The short list is: the Bible, Think and Grow Rich by
Napoleon Hill, How To Read a Book by Mortimer Adler, The Richest
Man in Babylon by George Clason, The Lessons of History by
William James Durant, As a Man Thinketh by James Allen and The
Story of Philosophy by William James Durant. Beyond that short,
but important list, which will help lay the foundation for
reading excellence in your life, then you must search and
develop your own unique list.
Q. Mr. Rohn, I have a wonderful job/career working for some
truly wonderful people doing what I love to do and do best --
writing. However, I want to branch out and have started several
projects, have wonderful ideas about what I want to do with my
skills. My problem is I can't seem to get off dead center. I've
ordered books on publishing, writing and other sources to help
me with my chosen dream but, I just can't seem to get the
momentum going to accomplish my passion. I read your
motivational words each week along with as much other
motivational material as I can get my hands on, but I still have
the same old problem of procrastination. How can I get this
dream moving?
Thank you for any assistance you can give me. SW
A. I've often found some of the greatest motivation and
inspiration in achieving a goal is found by simply getting
started. Once you take a step past fatigue, boredom, obstacles,
mental blocks and procrastination you find renewed energy and
vision.
I've meet many people who also have found clever ways to
procrastinate - they are forever more the professional student.
They keep learning and studying, but never doing. I'm a huge
proponent of learning, but my advice is study and then do. Then
study some more and then do some more...
Also, I suggest that you focus your 'several projects' down to
just one or two that are the most important for you to
accomplish and focus on now. Some times too many choices can
mean to choose not to choose at all. Yes, have your dream list,
but then narrow the focus of the list to one or two at a time,
at least until you create the needed momentum.
And lastly, it is ok to take baby steps. The wise saying "The
journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step" is true.
And often times it is the first small steps that mean the most.
Good Luck!
Q. A question for Mr. Rohn: I've read your books, listened to
your tapes, enjoyed them immensely and agree with your
philosophy. My question is as you move along in life and start
to realize that maybe you are not going to be what you thought
you were going to be and age becomes a determining factor, what
do you tell yourself? I think you will agree that it becomes
more difficult to be motivated the older you get. So a person
who is older (say age 50), but still wants to become successful
- does he realistically have a chance? I believe I read in one
of your books or heard on one of your tapes that if you haven't
become financially secure by the age of 50 you were not going to
be. As you can tell, I'm struggling with my age and feel I
haven't accomplished my goals and feel as if time may be running
out. I would appreciate any comments you may have for me. Best
Regards, Mark
A. I truly believe that it is possible to start at any time in
our life and begin moving toward success. Sometimes we get so
caught up on having a certain dollar amount or retirement date
that it seems impossible to reach. But the truth is that there
is no set amount or person to compare yourself to. You just
start doing what you can today to make good decisions that move
you closer to success in each of the areas of your life that you
want to improve. And the wonderful thing is that success begets
success. In just a few short days, then weeks, months and years
you will see the positive accumulation of good habits,
disciplines and decisions that start to add up. Just like when
clearing the weeds out of your garden and planting and tending
the new crops, you will start to see how just the application of
the simplest disciplines when applied consistently over a period
of time will produce the most amazing results.
Do I believe it is ever too late to achieve this kind of success
in life? Of course not, in fact one of the basic sources of
happiness and joy that we experience in life is the stewardship
of all that our creator has given us to rule over. And odds are
that while just applying these basic principals to your daily
life you now put yourself in line for future opportunities that
in the past might have overlooked you -- often without even your
awareness.
So start putting together the future story that will be yours to
share of how, just like so many hundreds of thousands of others
who started well beyond their 40's, 50's, 60's and even 70's,
you started the miracle process that led to true success and
fulfillment in your own unique life. JR
Q. Jim, a friend recently introduced me to your philosophies.
They have quoted as you as saying that success is easy - what do
you mean by that? JB
A. Well, the short answer is that most accomplishments can be
broken down into small manageable parts. And that as a whole,
the project might look difficult or even impossible, but when
approached in small bite-sized pieces, it is indeed easy.
Examples:
Lose 50 pounds. That is only one pound a week over one year. Is
one pound a week hard? No, even if you have a slow metabolism,
most people can lose one pound a week.
Read 50 books. One book a week over the next year.
Contact 500 people about a new opportunity. Its only 2 people a
day, five days a week over the period of a year.
Learning a new language? Learn just 5-10 words a day. At the end
of a year you will have learned 1500-3000 words of a new
language.
Become financially independent? Saving/investing 5-10% of your
money at an 8-12% return over 20-40 years almost guarantees you
financial independence when you retire (if not much sooner).
And again the question: is all this easy? My answer is
absolutely, especially compared to many other places around the
world. So what's the problem? The problem is that it is also
easy not to. Success is easy, but so is failure. So we all get
to choose the "easy" in life - easy to or easy not to.
Q. As a frequent student of Jim Rohn, I have this question. With
English as my first and only language, which language would you
recommend that I learn to help open up my skills for dealing
with a global economy? Spanish, Japanese or any other language?
I live in the US, but I'm working to expand a NWM company
internationally. Please advise. Thanks. J.M.
A. Obviously your future goals, ambitions and influences would
play heavily into the answer. But generally if you live in
America and want to also be part of a global economy I would
still say Spanish should be number one. It would be valuable to
you in both North and South America as well as parts of Europe.
It is also relatively easy to learn. After Spanish then it's
your pick. Whatever seems to make the most sense to you.
I do congratulate you on wanting to increase your influence and
skill by learning a second language. Only five to ten new words
a day can translate into 1500-3000 words in one year.
Q. I have a question; I am involved with an MLM company. I am
truly focused on this company and their products. However, I am
struggling. I purchased your tape series; I normally do not like
tapes. Yours were excellent. My problem is I NEED A MENTOR.
Please advise me where I can turn. May God bless you and your
special ministry. MW
A. Thank you for your kind words. I was fortunate early on to
have Mr. Schoaff as my mentor. But I also had some other very
powerful influential mentors as well. People like Napoleon Hill,
Earl Nightingale and James Allen. Although at the time I did not
personally know these gentleman, I did know the very best of
what they had to share from their books with anyone who would
take the time to learn from them.
I'm assuming MW, that you are doing OK compared to the rest of
the world, based on the question and what little I already know
about you -- since you are reading and listening to personal
development information. My advice is to continue to search out
good information and then ACT upon it. Let every source of ideas
and motivation be your mentor, until a live body comes along,
and even then let that person be a source - not the whole piece
of the mentoring input into your life. Good luck!
Q. What do you think the future holds for sales? I have no
degree; I am 29 and need to start a career. I have been taking
care of my kids as a house dad for the past 7 years while my
wife built her career. I want to control my income. I would like
to get into a sales position that doesn't require a degree that
can take me to unlimited income potential. If you have any ideas
please let me know. Take care and have a great day. Best
regards, TL
A. I really I don't know enough about you personally and what
motivates you to properly answer your question. But I do believe
sales will have a great future. The key is what do you want to
do? Focus on what you want to do the next 10-30 years and
beyond, and then move in that direction, applying the principals
of focus, faith, persistence and hard work.
As for as unlimited income potential, I know only two: self-
employment and MLM. Neither one is quick or easy, if someone
says otherwise-- beware, and both can be financially and time
risky. With both you need to think long term and apply the
principals I mentioned in my article. In the beginning you can
usually do either one part time, to help minimize risk while you
gain experience. I don't believe it's necessary to invest large
amounts of money into either one, especially if you are new or
inexperienced. Build it slow and right and think long term.
Q. Dear Mr. Rohn, Is it possible to get any of your books or
audios in Spanish? E.I.
A. We know there is a demand for Jim's books and audios in
Spanish as well as many other languages. We hope to at least
have Seasons of Life, The Five Major Pieces and the Treasury of
Quotes available in Spanish and up on our shopping cart by mid
November. We possibly could have audios in Spanish by next year.
Any further details will appear on our website and in future E-zines.
Thank you.
Q. Can you tell us about the way Jim made his fortune? What
type of company was he working for with Mr. Shoaff and what
types of companies has Jim owned or managed since then? Does he
speak full-time or does he continue to run various firms?
A. After starting on his first fortune in network marketing,
Jim went on to become an entrepreneur. He has founded, or is
active in, companies across multiple industries including, home
building, fast food restaurants, jewelry stores, ranching and,
of course, the training industry. He is still actively speaking
and overseeing many entrepreneurial interests.
Q. I recently purchased your tape program, "The Art of
Exceptional Living," and am truly inspired by it! I want to
apply some of these new Principles in my life to a network
marketing business, but do not know how to go about finding an
honorable company with amazing products. Do you have any
expertise in this area? Any thoughts/ recommendations would be
greatly appreciated! Thank you in advance for your attention to
my request.
Sincerely, Vikki Neyhart
A. I commend you on wanting to do the proper research. I would
recommend a few of the following things to consider. The
stability of the Company and it's leadership- How long have they
been around? Do they have a tried and proven marketing and
compensation plan? The product- It's very important to believe
in your product and have confidence that you can sell it. Great
profits never compensate for a poor product. Your reputation and
peace of mind are more important than any short-term gains. Will
you have a mentor or good training?
Most people aren't seeking out opportunities; it's usually the
other way around. Do you like your sponsor? Can and will they
help you? Lastly, think long term. Keep your day job. Have a
long-term plan to incrementally grow your part-time income.
Focus on improving your skills and friendships, while you grow
your long-term business.
This week, our special guest Zig Ziglar provides the answer to a
frequently asked question we receive in regards to becoming a
professional speaker:
Here is Zig:
Thank you for your interest in information on becoming a
professional speaker. I appreciate your interest and hope my
advice will be helpful to you.
As you may already know, I got my start in public speaking when
I began giving sales seminars for the cookware companies where I
was employed. In order to branch out, I made myself available to
every church, school and civic organization or club within a
day's driving distance of my home. Of course, I had to give away
my time and talent for a number of years, but none of the
engagements I accepted went to waste. You see, with each
appearance I was able to perfect my presentation, to see what
did and did not work with my audiences, and to discover what
areas of interest were prevalent in those communities. I simply
accepted any and every invitation to speak and, of course, each
opportunity gained some exposure and helped to acquire
additional invitations.
I recommend you join a local Toastmasters group and become a
member of the National Speakers Association (1500 South Priest
Drive, Tempe, Arizona 85281, 602/968-2552). There is a Canadian
Association of Professional Speakers with many local branches.
If you've not already participated in a Dale Carnegie Leadership
Course, I recommend you do so. Our own three-day "Born To Win"
Seminar is excellent training for a career in pubic speaking
(please see our web site www.zigziglar.com
You will eventually need to produce a brochure or pamphlet on
yourself. Include testimonials with the names and addresses or
phone numbers of the people contributing the endorsement. Don't
bother to claim to be "Canada's Number One Speaker," since the
number of "number one's" has already reached astronomic
proportions!
When you feel that one of your presentations is about as good as
its going to get, have a reel-to-reel or DAT recording made of
an appearance before an audience. Have the recording reproduced
on cassettes and make them available to people who show an
interest in inviting you to be their speaker. This is really an
invaluable sales tool. Do be sure the recording is of good
quality.
Probably the most important advice I can give is that you
maintain a full-time paid position as you gradually move into
the field of professional speaking and training. The actual
length of time the transition will require differs with each
individual, but we must maintain a healthy financial
responsibility if our speaking career is to be based on a
foundation of integrity.
Now you know what I know. My very best to you in your endeavors.
God bless you and yours in everything. SEE YOU OVER THE TOP!
Zig Ziglar
Q. Is Jim a member of The National Speakers Association? Would
he recommend me joining?
A. Yes, Jim is a member of NSA. In fact, in 1985 he received
the coveted CPAE award that has been given to less than 2% of
the 5,000 plus members. NSA and Toastmasters International are
both excellent organizations to join, to both increase your
skills as a speaker and to meet the industry leaders.
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